This paper presents "Remember Me, Not Save Me," an AR & AI system enabling virtual citizens to develop personality through collective dialogue. Core innovations include: Dynamic Collective Memory (DCM) model with narrative tension mechanisms for handling contradictory memories; State-Reflective Avatar for ambient explainability; and Geo-Cultural Context Anchoring for local identity. Deployed at the 2024 Jinan Biennale, the system demonstrated stable personality emergence (ISTP type via Apply Magic Sauce analysis) from over 2,500 public interactions. We provide a framework for designing evolving digital entities that transform collective memory into coherent identity.

翻译：本文提出"记住我，而非保存我"——一个通过集体对话使虚拟公民发展人格的AR与AI系统。核心创新包括：采用叙事张力机制处理矛盾记忆的动态集体记忆模型；实现环境可解释性的状态反射型虚拟化身；以及建立在地理文化语境中的本土身份锚定系统。该系统在2024济南双年展部署期间，通过2500余次公众互动，展现出稳定的人格涌现现象（通过Apply Magic Sauce分析显示为ISTP类型）。我们提供了一个将集体记忆转化为连贯身份的设计框架，用于创建持续演化的数字实体。